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[Books] 大明王朝1566(上)

这部书的牛逼之处在于: 以改稻为桑为明线,以新老权力斗争和交接为暗线,展现封建专制统治的运行规则。 “明天就是大年三十了,你的家人都在等你过年哪。你就不能改个说法?” 也许有人认为,愿意为了理想/正义献出生命的人是英雄。我认可他们的勇气,曾经的我也是这样的人,但是付出了巨大的代价之后,现在的我并不这样会这样做,因为我不认可这样做的智慧。内在可以见势不屈、见威不惕,这叫勇气,但是外在的行为上要以保护自己,尤其是身体,为第一优先级。死人或许更容易成为英雄,但是世界是被活人改变的 以前的我,知成不知败,知进不知退。有勇气、有志气是好事,这是当男主角的基础。但是没有智慧支撑,到头来吃亏的总是自己,活不过三集怎么做男主角?现在我遇到conflict会问自己两个问题“这个fight值不值得我pick?”,“能不能迂回的fight?” “仰赖皇上如天之德,和大家实心用事,最艰难的日子总算过去了。”严嵩不紧不慢地开始给会议定调子,“去年两个省的大旱,三个省的大水,北边和东南几次大的战事,再加上宫里一场大火。说实话,我都不知道是怎么过来的。皇上宵衣旰食,大家累点全都应该。“ 贵为九五至尊的皇帝也得宵衣旰食,位极人臣的内阁首辅大臣也得996,要不说众生皆苦呢? “二十年的君臣默契,大殿里的严嵩甚至知道里面的嘉靖现在站在哪个方位等听他接下来的话” 不要把上级想的太高了,即使他是皇帝。心态上任何人都应该是和你平级的“同事” “他已经悟到了“太极”政治的真谛——政不由己出,都交给下面的人去办、去争。做对了,他便认可;做错了,责任永远是下面的。万稳万当,不如一默。任何一句话,你不说出来便是那句话的主人,你说了出来,便是那句话的奴隶。” 嘉靖就是典型的故弄玄虚、尸位素餐的leader,有能力但是只想用能力满自己的私欲 “朕刚才念的是唐朝李翱的《问道诗》。朕最喜欢就是最后一句‘云在青天水在瓶’。你们这些人有些是云,有些是水,所作的事情不同而已。都是忠臣,没有奸臣。” 嘉靖虽然不是能把公司做好的CEO,但却是是一个玩弄政治满足自己私欲的高手 “调派二十名太监二十名宫女过去伺候。” 在工业革命以前,人类成天琢磨的都是怎么奴役同类。当然,今天也不遑多让 “跟了我这么多年,天天教着,牛教三遍也会撇绳了。瞧你那嚣张气,为了急着往上爬,二十九打死了周云逸,今天又抢着去报祥瑞。我不计较你,宫里这么多人不记恨?还...

[Books] Breakfast with Seneca: A Stoic Guide to the Art of Living

Seneca was a Stoic philosopher of Ancient Rome, and this book is about his philosophy According to Socrates, gym is to keep your body healthy, and philosophy is to care for the soul “What I also discovered in Seneca’s writings is that nothing significant has changed in human nature over the last two thousand years, which made everything he had to say contemporary. Vanity, greed, ambition, pursuit of luxury, and runaway consumerism—aspects of Rome’s elite, decadent society that Seneca described in detail—are all still very much with us.” This is one reason why I read many old books and watched many old movies “For the Stoics, the only things fully under our control are our inner powers of judgment, opinion, and decision making, our will, and how we interpret the things we experience.” 这就是所谓的free will “When something negative happens, or when we are struck by adversity, we shouldn’t be surprised by it, but see it as an opportunity to create a better situation.” 读这本书的时候恰逢我走出一个人生低谷,然后发现自己走...